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Dave Chapelle: The Love Contract July 30, 2007

Posted by The Love Doctor in Dating, Dating in NYC, Dating Zen Masters, Just Damn Funny, Safe Sex, Sex, Strategery, The Case for Abstinence.
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Family Guy: Hating Your Girlfriend July 30, 2007

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Why…You…Never…Tell…The…Truth… July 26, 2007

Posted by The Love Doctor in Dating, Dating in NYC, Just Damn Funny, Relationships, Safe Sex, Sex, The Case for Abstinence, The Love Equation.
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As a follow up to my post Why You Should Never Ask Them How Many People They’ve Slept With , here’s the forever famous scene in Clerks that makes the case all the better than I ever could.

Lol…enjoy.

My Super Ex-Girlfriend July 21, 2007

Posted by The Love Doctor in Cheating, Dating, Just Damn Funny, Love, Love is War, Movie Review, Relationships, Strategery, The Breakup, The Case for Abstinence.
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This was really a great movie.

I went to it alone and laughed my ass off after the last breakup… and it has worked wonders.

If you’re in the same situation give it a try!

Hilarious…

The Fresh Prince of Bel-Air: Have You Ever… July 17, 2007

Posted by The Love Doctor in Dating, Just Damn Funny, Parents & Dating, Sex, The Case for Abstinence.
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Those Damn Gold Diggers…. July 14, 2007

Posted by The Love Doctor in Cheating, Dating, Dating in NYC, Dating Zen Masters, Love, Love is War, More Money More Problems, Music, Relationships, Strategery, The Case for Abstinence, The Love Equation, The Rebound.
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I’ve written about the overemphasis on money in relationships (Mo Money Mo Problems)…

I’ve brought you TLC’s No Scrubs

I’ve brought you Amy Winehouse’s Fuck Me Pumps

Now, you get a great piece from Biker Boys Blog on golddiggers… (some great comments in the original post as well).

Along with Kanye West’s Golddiggers to boot (listen close the lyrics my friends…listen close to the lyrics…he’s a master).

Both….are so tight.

Even better in the same post…

From Biker Blog….

I ain’t sayin she a gold digga

A lot of my lady friends these days seem to be looking for more serious relationships and the number one criteria on their minds is a guy who can provide “security”. But, at what point does it stop being looking for security, and start becoming plain ol’ fashioned gold diggin’? I can fully understand a girl wanting to marry a guy with ambition or a steady job. I mean, if you’re like one of my friends and plan on having 5 kids right away, then you’re not going to marry an aspiring hand model with no health insurance and a dollar to his name… at least that’s why she told me she couldn’t marry me (but with hands this beautiful who needs her).

However, it gets tricky when money is the sole factor in deciding someone’s eligibility, not taking into account ambition. There’s this girl I used to work with. Just so I don’t bias your view of her, we’ll refer to her as Gold Diggin Diana. Diana was in a steady relationship with her boyfriend since college for more than 6 years at the time, we’ll call him Nice Guy Nelson. Nelson was a stand up guy who loved her and was a great boyfriend in my opinion. He studied film in college and wanted to eventually become a director. But, if you are familiar with the film industry, you know that you can’t just come out of school and be a director. You have to pay your dues first and work your way up there. So like any other aspiring director, he was starting out as some peon for a director of a few shows at FOX. Well Diana suddenly decided that he wouldn’t be able to give her the financial security that she needed and dumped him to go after a 5 year older banker type who was clearly well off. As fate would have it, the banker completely played her and kicked her to the curb. She went back to Nelson, who being the nice guy that he was, took her back without hesitation.

If I was Nelson, I would not have taken her back. Here I am being a supportive boyfriend for over 6 years to this girl, but when I’m struggling and need support, on the grind trying to start my career, she up and leaves me for Bobby the Banker. I mean, I ain’t saying she a gold digga’. But wait, I already did call her Gold Diggin Diana. The moral of the story is this: Ladies, if your man has ambition and a dream, support him even though things may get rough. Other guys may have the money right now, but all that glitters isn’t gold, and good people are hard to find these days. Can I get an amen? (link)

The Dangers of Online Dating July 13, 2007

Posted by The Love Doctor in Dating, If You Had No Interest in Sex, Online Dating, Strategery, The Case for Abstinence.
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Sex for Money v. Sex for Free July 11, 2007

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“The big difference between sex for money and sex for free is that sex for money usually costs a lot less.” – Brendan Behan

Family Guy: Be A Man Damn You! July 10, 2007

Posted by The Love Doctor in Cheating, Just Damn Funny, Love is War, Marriage, Safe Sex, Sex, The Case for Abstinence.
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No Scrubs July 9, 2007

Posted by The Love Doctor in Love is War, More Money More Problems, Relationships, Strategery, The Case for Abstinence, The Love Equation, You Tubes of Love.
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I’ve written about the phenomenon of female shallowness about looking for men with money…but there’s nothing better than just watching a great video on the issue.

Then again…in fairness…..is it fair to ask women to date a true hardcore scrub?

You be the judge…