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The Tao of Steve: The First Rule September 10, 2008

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When thou does not desire thou is desired.

Dave Chapelle: The Love Contract July 30, 2007

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Is Monogamy Natural? July 28, 2007

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A great article from Alternet:

Is Monogamy Natural?

By Anneli Rufus, AlterNet. Posted July 25, 2007.

A lifetime of love versus a quick roll with a stranger. It’s funny how we can have two seemingly opposite urges at the same time.

Why Do Doctors Get to Decide When a Woman Is Old Enough to Have Her ‘Tubes Tied’?
Bonnie Zylbergold

A hot naked chick hit on Joe Quirk at Burning Man. That’s what he calls her: a hot naked chick. He’s married. But his wife wasn’t there.

“I was in the middle of a desert,” he remembers. “Nobody would ever know.”

It’s funny how we can have two seemingly opposite urges at the same time. A lifetime of love. A quick roll with a total stranger.

He said no.

Because he loves his wife. Because he wouldn’t want to ruin his life by losing her. But choices such as the one he made that day on the sand aren’t totally matters of morality. They’re not about cartoon angels and devils sparring on our shoulders.

They’re science talking.

Vaunted in the mainstream media, two new reports from the Pew Research Center report and the National Survey of Families and Households indicate that couples become bored and unhappy sooner than was previously thought: more like three years into their togetherness than seven.

Well, sure, says Quirk, whose book Sperm Are From Men, Eggs Are From Women (Running Press, 2006) details what he calls “the science of relationships.” A three-year itch makes plain biological sense, he says. (keep reading)

Why…You…Never…Tell…The…Truth… July 26, 2007

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As a follow up to my post Why You Should Never Ask Them How Many People They’ve Slept With , here’s the forever famous scene in Clerks that makes the case all the better than I ever could.

Lol…enjoy.

The Simpsons: An Adulterous Apu July 20, 2007

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Amy Winehouse Lets Boyfriend Cheat July 20, 2007

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Interesting approach..

WINEHOUSE LETS BOYFRIEND CHEAT

British jazz beauty AMY WINEHOUSE lets her boyfriend sleep with as many women as he wants.
The 20-year-old FRANK singer insists she doesn’t mind if live-in lover TYLER JAMES enjoys steamy romps with other girls.
She says, “We let each other see other people. Tyler might stay away for a couple of days with a girl.
“We don’t just sit around and cuddle like your average couple, we give each other space.” (keep reading)

The Fresh Prince of Bel-Air: Have You Ever… July 17, 2007

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Better Than Sex…The Movie July 16, 2007

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This is really one of the best dating/relationship movies I’ve ever seen. Great to watch with your significant other actually. It reminds us that there really are better things than sex… like sex + something else great at the same time.

Indeed, one of my relationships started off in many ways like the one in this movie.

Well…at least I can say it started really well…

Here’s the trailer….

Listen Sex Haters…..It’s Human Nature July 12, 2007

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Madonna even made a video making a nuanced persuasive argument about the whole debate.

Sex for Money v. Sex for Free July 11, 2007

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“The big difference between sex for money and sex for free is that sex for money usually costs a lot less.” – Brendan Behan