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My Super Ex-Girlfriend July 21, 2007

Posted by The Love Doctor in Cheating, Dating, Just Damn Funny, Love, Love is War, Movie Review, Relationships, Strategery, The Breakup, The Case for Abstinence.
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This was really a great movie.

I went to it alone and laughed my ass off after the last breakup… and it has worked wonders.

If you’re in the same situation give it a try!



The Cosby Show: Marriage is a Give and Take July 17, 2007

Posted by The Love Doctor in Just Damn Funny, Love, Marriage.
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Man… I hope one day I have a wife like this…here’s hoping…

Better Than Sex…The Movie July 16, 2007

Posted by The Love Doctor in Dating, Love, Love is War, Relationships, Sex, The Case Against Abstinence, The Love Equation, The One Night Stand.
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This is really one of the best dating/relationship movies I’ve ever seen. Great to watch with your significant other actually. It reminds us that there really are better things than sex… like sex + something else great at the same time.

Indeed, one of my relationships started off in many ways like the one in this movie.

Well…at least I can say it started really well…

Here’s the trailer….

Those Damn Gold Diggers…. July 14, 2007

Posted by The Love Doctor in Cheating, Dating, Dating in NYC, Dating Zen Masters, Love, Love is War, More Money More Problems, Music, Relationships, Strategery, The Case for Abstinence, The Love Equation, The Rebound.
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I’ve written about the overemphasis on money in relationships (Mo Money Mo Problems)…

I’ve brought you TLC’s No Scrubs

I’ve brought you Amy Winehouse’s Fuck Me Pumps

Now, you get a great piece from Biker Boys Blog on golddiggers… (some great comments in the original post as well).

Along with Kanye West’s Golddiggers to boot (listen close the lyrics my friends…listen close to the lyrics…he’s a master).

Both….are so tight.

Even better in the same post…

From Biker Blog….

I ain’t sayin she a gold digga

A lot of my lady friends these days seem to be looking for more serious relationships and the number one criteria on their minds is a guy who can provide “security”. But, at what point does it stop being looking for security, and start becoming plain ol’ fashioned gold diggin’? I can fully understand a girl wanting to marry a guy with ambition or a steady job. I mean, if you’re like one of my friends and plan on having 5 kids right away, then you’re not going to marry an aspiring hand model with no health insurance and a dollar to his name… at least that’s why she told me she couldn’t marry me (but with hands this beautiful who needs her).

However, it gets tricky when money is the sole factor in deciding someone’s eligibility, not taking into account ambition. There’s this girl I used to work with. Just so I don’t bias your view of her, we’ll refer to her as Gold Diggin Diana. Diana was in a steady relationship with her boyfriend since college for more than 6 years at the time, we’ll call him Nice Guy Nelson. Nelson was a stand up guy who loved her and was a great boyfriend in my opinion. He studied film in college and wanted to eventually become a director. But, if you are familiar with the film industry, you know that you can’t just come out of school and be a director. You have to pay your dues first and work your way up there. So like any other aspiring director, he was starting out as some peon for a director of a few shows at FOX. Well Diana suddenly decided that he wouldn’t be able to give her the financial security that she needed and dumped him to go after a 5 year older banker type who was clearly well off. As fate would have it, the banker completely played her and kicked her to the curb. She went back to Nelson, who being the nice guy that he was, took her back without hesitation.

If I was Nelson, I would not have taken her back. Here I am being a supportive boyfriend for over 6 years to this girl, but when I’m struggling and need support, on the grind trying to start my career, she up and leaves me for Bobby the Banker. I mean, I ain’t saying she a gold digga’. But wait, I already did call her Gold Diggin Diana. The moral of the story is this: Ladies, if your man has ambition and a dream, support him even though things may get rough. Other guys may have the money right now, but all that glitters isn’t gold, and good people are hard to find these days. Can I get an amen? (link)

Amy Winehouse’s “You Should Be Stronger Than Me” July 11, 2007

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Before I put up Amy Winehouse’s amazing “Fuck Me Pumps” (okay the song is amazing if not the video)

Now in “You Should Be Stronger Than Me” she destroys the guy who seems to be her ex-boyfriend. Listen to the lyrics………. so ill.

Ironically, according to wikipedia she seems to have just married the guy she is singing about.

Public Service Announcement:

If Amy Winehosue gets divorced…which given the lyrics seems likely…never date her unless you plan to never breakup…cause she may leave your ass drunk on the curb and then sing about it on a platinum album.

Listen and laugh…..

Clay Walker’s “Then What” July 7, 2007

Posted by The Love Doctor in Cheating, Dating Zen Masters, If You Had No Interest in Sex, Just Damn Funny, Love, Music, Relationships, Strategery, You Tubes of Love.
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I first saw this video on a trip to a foreign country ten years ago.

There are so many amazing things about it.

1) The lyrics…actually pretty good… and relevant to dating and relationships
2) That it’s country music
3) That I saw it on Spanish language channel in Latin America ( I think it might have even had Spanish subtitles)
4) The video has both a country singer and caribbean steel drums in on video.

You have to watch this!

How to Get a Girl Back July 4, 2007

Posted by The Love Doctor in Dating, Flirtation, Love, Love is War, Relationships, Strategery, The Breakup, The Rebound.

Here’s a great seven step program to get your ex-girlfriend back.

I think this is pretty spot on my own advice minus step 6.

I would go easy on the 6 or not do it at all.

If you do steps 1-5 + 7 the right way, they’ll want you back anyways and you won’t have to do any of that horrible wooing stuff…

Happy 4th of July!

– The Love Doctor

How to Get a Girl Back
Okay, so she made a mistake and dumped you. It’s time to get her back. Your ex-girlfriend won’t stay gone for long once she realizes you are the best thing for her. But you need to keep your cool. Here’s how to get a girl back after a breakup:
Difficulty: Moderate

Step One
Play it cool. Act like you are okay with her decision to leave. Don’t behave like a pathetic, blubbering mess of desperation. Be the person she wants to be with.

Step Two
Live your life. When she sees that the grass is greener on your side of the fence, she will want to return to you.

Step Three
Ignore her, but not completely. Don’t answer the phone on the first ring if she calls, and try to seem like you are busy if she suggests meeting. Don’t let on if you are moping around the house for her to love you again.

Step Four
See other people. Jealousy is a powerful emotion. Once she sees you with other girls, she may start feeling territorial.

Step Five
If you run into her at a party, act casual. Smile a lot (but don’t seem smug). Make her laugh. Remind her of the person she used to want to be with. Don’t act like an ex. Act like an old flame she never should have left.

Step Six
Woo her–that is, if the casual act isn’t speeding things along quickly and you’ve already made some headway. If you know she’s a sucker for romance, wait until the time is right and begin showering her with gifts and attention. Be creative, not clingy. Only begin Operation Woo Her Back once you have your foot in the door. Don’t go straight from violent breakup to guitar strumming outside her window.

Step Seven
Maintain contact with your mutual friends. That way, when she asks them, “How is doing?” they’ll be able to say, “Oh, he’s great. We hang out sometimes, and he’s tons of fun. Why did you ever leave him?” (link)

The Last Kiss: What Do You Do When You Have It All…………..But You’re Not Sure It’s Enough? July 3, 2007

Posted by The Love Doctor in Cheating, Flirtation, Love, Love is War, Relationships, Strategery, The Love Equation, You Tubes of Love.
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That is the question posed and answered by “The Last Kiss.”

A really great movie about that “what if” question everybody in a long-term relationship with somebody great…still asks themselves…..sometimes.

Is it good enough…to be my last kiss….ever?

Chris Rock’s Excuses Women Give Not to Have Sex With You June 30, 2007

Posted by The Love Doctor in Dating, Dating Zen Masters, Love, Marriage, Relationships, Sex, The Case Against Abstinence, The Case for Abstinence, You Tubes of Love.

Martin Lawrence: Men Are Crazy Deranged Motherfuckas! June 28, 2007

Posted by The Love Doctor in Dating, Dating Zen Masters, Just Damn Funny, Love, Love is War, Relationships, Strategery, You Tubes of Love.

A little long, but man…ML is funny!

And….we’ve all been there!